Wife watching husband gay
Has anyone ever experienced this with another guy or fantasized about doing it? I'm married and would love to do it with my wife watching and even having her fuck him and me. It would be one big love fuck. Unfortunately me wife would never ever do something enjoy this, so it is only a dream for me.
Today’s Column
November 30, 2007
Husband wants to have sex with a guy while his wife watches
Recently, my wonderful husband of 10 years expressed his interest in pursuing a sexual experience with anotherman, with me show .
The way that he explained it, I wouldn’t be very involved.
Did I marry a gay man?
- Surprised
Only your husband can answer that question, despite the labelling that others would apply immediately. But he must answer for both your sakes, and soon.
He may be drawn to experimentation for this one time only, or he may be questioning his own sexual persona.
If you participate or watch, you give permission to crossing the sexual boundaries you’ve had until now, so be prepared that this will disturb your marriage in some way.
Also, think ahead: if he IS male lover, how would you react?
My husband of six years is my soul mate; we’ve had an affectionate and loving partnership.
Yet several months ago, at another couple’s home where the wife habitually "hangs" on other men when she drinks, MY husband was her goal and he reciprocated her flirtations and ignored me the rest of the evening.
Though we were all cute intoxicated, I don’t kno
I caught my husband watching male lover porn and he admitted he's seen it before. Does that mean he's gay?
I recently came into the bedroom to discover my husband of 25 years asleep with his iPad on his lap. When I got a closer look, I was shocked to see he had been viewing gay male porn.
When I woke him up and asked him about it, he admitted to looking at all types of porn, including threesomes and videos from same-sex attracted men-specific sites. I've also arrive across targeted ads on our home computer, so I hold reason to believe he's watched it there too.
My gut reaction is that straight men don't look at gay men porn — or do they?
- Arlington, Texas
Dear Arlington,
When you catch a longtime partner doing something you've never seen them do or even talk about before, it can be quite a shock. Add pornography consumption, a topic that's taboo in our world, into the mix, and I can understand why you're so taken aback by your discovery.
But sexual pleasure isn't as cut-and-dry as you may think. There's a whole spectrum of sexuality that goes beyond "gay" and "straight," including of course bisexuality, so it's possible for your husband to be totally
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Dear How to Do It,
Please help. I’m pretty sure my husband of more than 20 years is gay.
Some background: I have anxiety, and anxiety can come with paranoia at times. He’s been my only sexual partner, and we were married when I was in my first 20s. We are of similar ages, but he had been in other sexual relationships, which was fine with me. I just hadn’t. Now, 20-plus years and multiple kids later, half our marriage has been him not wanting to possess much to undertake with physical stuff like kissing, cuddling, or sex—unless I perform on him, usually. I am lonely as hell. We sleep in the same bed, but I perceive like we are just roommates. He’s not super represent , and I’ve brought this conversation up so many times up over the last 15 or so years, but every time there’s another reason: He has bad breath; he’s tired; he just wants to be with his friends (I’m not invited). He says every time I bring it up, I make it harder for him. On the scarce occasion (two times a year tops) we do include intercourse