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Why do some straight men have sex with other men?
According to nationally-representative surveys in the United States, hundreds of thousands of straight-identified men have had sex with other men.
In the new book Still Straight: Sexual Flexibility among White Men in Rural America released today, UBC sociologist Dr. Tony Silva argues that these men – many of whom enjoy hunting, fishing and shooting guns – are not closeted, bisexual or just experimenting.
After interviewing 60 of these men over three years, Dr. Silva found that they love a range of relationships with other men, from hookups to sexual friendships to secretive loving partnerships, all while strongly naming with straight culture.
We spoke with Dr. Silva about his book.
Why do straight-identified men have sex with other men?
The majority of the men I interviewed reported that they are primarily attracted to women, not men. Most of these men are also married to women and prefer to have sex with women. They explained that although they loved their wives, their marital sex lives were not as active as they wanted. Sex with men allowed them to hold more sex. They don’t consider sex with men cheating and s
The Private Lives of Straight Men with Sugar Daddies
In 2016, Hal learned that one of his friends was a sugar baby, someone who goes out with usually older and wealthier individuals in exchange for gifts or regular allowances. This acquaintance, a man who dated both sugar daddiesand mommies, made sugaring sound enjoy “a way to make easy money.” That appealed to Hal, then in his mid-20s and fresh out of a stint in the military. He’d been struggling to make ends see while searching fruitlessly for a occupation, so as a fairly handsome and fit man, he figured he’d grant it a try.
He made an account on a purposefully unspecified sugar virtual dating site, and establish a guy who was willing to pay him $500 per date, on the condition that they’d chat regularly and see each other once a week. Though his description paints this daddy as demanding and not always pleasant to be around, those dates usually ended in sex. “At the time, $500 was a lot for me,” Hal, a pseudonym, recalls. “It was a small for someone making millions.”
This is a pretty archetypal sugar dating story, down to the sums Hal earned every month. Except for one detail, that is: Both Hal and his ally are, as he puts it, “pretty much 100 pe
The straight men doing gay for disburse on OnlyFans and JustForFans
In April 2018, 26-year-old Ryan Yule had a “fuck it sort of moment” and joined OnlyFans, the platform that allows him to charge people $15 a month for access to pornographic photos and videos of himself. He had left the military in February and was “tired of being skint”, so began to upload – among other things – videos of himself masturbating. He makes a strong business case for doing so: “I used to have a wank and wouldn’t get paid for it, and now, I get paid for it.”
Ryan is one of an increasing number of heterosexual men uploading explicit content for their mostly male lover subscribers – Ryan tells me that he estimates his subscribers to be “97 per cent” men. Many of the straight men doing so rest between ‘top-lad’ and ‘apex-lad’ – essence, they perform heterosexuality to its most aesthetic extremes. Their watches are big, swollen biceps tattooed with crying Geishas, and for some reason, they photograph themselves sitting on the bonnets of cars. However, these adult content creators – the OnlyFans lads if you will – are redefining a brand of heterosexuality so fragile that it’s proven, in part, by its deliberat
Sex for Money
Many men–gay, straight and bisexual–can be sexual with the same sex or the antonym sex if money is committed. Most people, however, think that if a man accepts funds for sex with another bloke he cannot be straight.
We suppose that these men are same-sex attracted, or at the very least bisexual, and simply in denial about their sexuality. However, we now know that one subset of these men—straight men who enjoy getting paid for such sex—can, indeed, be heterosexual. It is not the sex that turns them on, it is the money! They have eroticized money, and the sense of value they derive from being admired and paid for performing sex acts with men.
In fact, increasingly in gay porn researchers own found straight men who appreciate participating in it. Often, they’re able to exact higher give for performing because many male lover guys are turned on by seeing straight men having male lover sex—and gay men are fast to spot them. Then, when the scene is done, the straight man goes home to his wife or girlfriend, and once again immerses himself in the world of heterosexuality. Of course, this eroticization of money is not limited to straight men having gay sex. Many men and women find it en